Why do we choose to be attached to a person when we knew he'll probably leave too, someday? We give a part of our hearts and soul to them, cannot be retrieved. Maybe because we only think of what was important and what we want for the moment and forgetting, maybe setting aside, what will be it's effect in the long run.
A kiss is as exciting as your first day at school or first time receiving a gift; and we treated it as a sport, when we don't know that from that simple act, we get ATTACHED emotionally to a person.
We hurry down at romance when we aren't even sure of our commitment. And then cries "I can't be without him anymore.", after you fell apart.
We are in a CIRCLE.
it's a CYCLE that leads you running and running (and running) without even getting anywhere.
You connect.
You attach.
You broke up.
You connect.
You attach.
You broke up.
A CYCLE.
Whether it's with the same person or the other, it's still a CIRCLE; and it only hurts us much...
I guess the best way to be is (no, not to play safe) but to be attached to a person JUST when you know you were really ready for COMMITMENT.
a. BUILD FRIENDSHIPS along the way while getting busy with things you should be DOING first in your life.
b. STOP seeing the opposite sex ONLY as potential boyfriend / girlfriend.
c. WAIT for ROMANCE until both of you are really planning for MARRIAGE (commitment).
d. DON'T FELL TO FAST.
e. PRAY.
Obedience's reward is BLESSING.
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Wednesday, September 22, 2010
A CIRCLE, I mean CYCLE.
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
hindi laging masaya 'no?!
akala mo siguro madali lang 'no?
iniisip mo siguro na palaging masaya lang.
kung oo, di mo pa nga ganun kakilala si PAG-IBIG.
nadama mo.
grade school ka nun nung makilala mu si first crush..
naglakad lang siya sa harap mo, kala mo tumigil saglit ang mundo't ikaw at suya nalang andun na tanging gumagalaw.
natignan ka lang nya, naiisip mo na kaagad na malamang may gusto rin siya sayo.
gusto mo lagi siyang nakikita. sasabihin mo pa nga, "mahal ko na siya.."
nahanap mo.
nung hayskul, nagligawan.
pakiamdam mo kayo ang love team ng klase pag nakakantyawan.
laging magkasama. di mapupuknat.
dadating mga firsts.. love, kiss, holding hands, pati hug ..
kapag medyo minalas at nagpadala sa kapusukan pati premarital sex papatusin nyo pa.
magkakagulo.
parang gumuho mundo mo nang sabihin nyang "ayoko na".
bwiset! binigay mo nang lahat.
akala mo kase lagi nalang masaya. laging nalang maganda.
nagkamali kang akala. paano na?
titigilan mo na.
ayaw mo na rin. muka ka na kaseng tanga.
makalipas ilang sandali, sasabihuin mo na naman..
naghihintay parin ako. SINO SUSUNOD?
iniisip mo siguro na palaging masaya lang.
kung oo, di mo pa nga ganun kakilala si PAG-IBIG.
nadama mo.
grade school ka nun nung makilala mu si first crush..
naglakad lang siya sa harap mo, kala mo tumigil saglit ang mundo't ikaw at suya nalang andun na tanging gumagalaw.
natignan ka lang nya, naiisip mo na kaagad na malamang may gusto rin siya sayo.
gusto mo lagi siyang nakikita. sasabihin mo pa nga, "mahal ko na siya.."
nahanap mo.
nung hayskul, nagligawan.
pakiamdam mo kayo ang love team ng klase pag nakakantyawan.
laging magkasama. di mapupuknat.
dadating mga firsts.. love, kiss, holding hands, pati hug ..
kapag medyo minalas at nagpadala sa kapusukan pati premarital sex papatusin nyo pa.
magkakagulo.
parang gumuho mundo mo nang sabihin nyang "ayoko na".
bwiset! binigay mo nang lahat.
akala mo kase lagi nalang masaya. laging nalang maganda.
nagkamali kang akala. paano na?
titigilan mo na.
ayaw mo na rin. muka ka na kaseng tanga.
makalipas ilang sandali, sasabihuin mo na naman..
naghihintay parin ako. SINO SUSUNOD?
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