A CIRCLE, I mean CYCLE.

Why do we choose to be attached to a person when we knew he'll probably leave too, someday? We give a part of our hearts and soul to them, cannot be retrieved. Maybe because we only think of what was important and what we want for the moment and forgetting, maybe setting aside, what will be it's effect in the long run.

A kiss is as exciting as your first day at school or first time receiving a gift; and we treated it as a sport, when we don't know that from that simple act, we get ATTACHED emotionally to a person.

We hurry down at romance when we aren't even sure of our commitment. And then cries "I can't be without him anymore.", after you fell apart.

We are in a CIRCLE.
it's a CYCLE that leads you running and running (and running) without even getting anywhere.
You connect.
You attach.
You broke up.
You connect.
You attach.
You broke up.

A CYCLE.


Whether it's with the same person or the other, it's still a CIRCLE; and it only hurts us much...


I guess the best way to be is (no, not to play safe) but to be attached to a person JUST when you know you were really ready for COMMITMENT.

a. BUILD FRIENDSHIPS along the way while getting busy with things you should be DOING first in your life.
b. STOP seeing the opposite sex ONLY as potential boyfriend / girlfriend.
c. WAIT for ROMANCE until both of you are really planning for MARRIAGE (commitment).
d. DON'T FELL TO FAST.
e. PRAY.


Obedience's reward is BLESSING.

ang nag hihintay...

habang nag hihintay ka,minsan naghahanap ka muna ng pampalipas-oras. walang masama don kaya lang minsan nahihibang ka na tapos yung pampapalipas-oras mo e nagiging pangunahing prayoridad mo na. (teka ba't ba ang kata ko?)

sa palipas ng panahon, kase nga ang tagal tagal n hinihintay mo, naiiba na. tapos sino ngayon sisisihin mo? yung nagpapa hintay kase nga ang tagal tagal naman nya, o ikaw na naghihintay kase di ka nalang maghintay ng matiwasay dyan, o yung pampalipas-oras mo na ume-epal; intentionally man o unintentionally...?
mahirap nga naman kase ang maghintay, kaya ganito nalang: para sa nagpapahintay: "biyan mo naman kase ng sinyales na may pag-asa si 'naghihintay', tapos deretsuhin mu na kung wala na talaga dapat pang natayin para maka usad naman siya, diba?" para sa naghihintay: "okay lang yang mga 'pampalipas-oras' na yan, pero itago mu muna yang puso mo, kase aba t*ng in*, deretsuhin mu nalang kaya si 'nagpapahintay' na hindi mu kaya?!" para sa 'pampalipas-oras': "matutong lumugar, okay?"
oo, konklusyon padin talagang mahirap maghintay!